Regardless of whether you are new or experienced in the use of male gay sex toys, there are numerous adult products available specifically targeted at the homosexual male in today’s marketplace. Some male sex toys such as the cock ring, even though this is by no means an adult toy exclusive to the gay male market, has been around since as far back as 1200 when it was first used by the Jin and Song dynasties by the Chinese, whereas the Fleshjack brand of Fleshlight male masturbators was launched specifically for gay men in 2007.
Gay Sex Toys for the Inexperienced Male
Products tailored more towards the beginner in homosexual male adult toys include items such as male sex toy starter kits. These kits are a relatively inexpensive way of trying out a whole host of male-specific products and consist of adult sex toys such as penis pumps, butt plugs and cock rings. A butt plug, also known as an anal plug, is also a firm favourite within the gay male community as it stimulates the anal passage. Anal beads also fall into this category. The majority of anal bead strings feature beads that graduate in size the further you go up the string meaning that the user can insert as many beads as they feel comfortable with. Many also come with a hand grip for easy release. Butt plugs are available in a variety of lengths and girths depending upon what level you are at. Some anal plugs are available as anal training kits and usually comprise of three different sizes of butt plugs. A cock ring is commonly employed by men of all sexual orientations to enhance and prolong the quality of an erection by restricting the blood flow to the penis.
Traditional Sex Toys for Gay Men
Sex pumps temporarily help to enhance the length, girth and hardness of the manhood by creating a vacuum in the cylinder which causes extra blood to rush to the penis. Male sex dolls feature vibrating and non-vibrating erect cocks, deep anuses and inviting mouths for endless possibilities. Dildos with balls and realistic vein and penis head detailing also are also popular. For the more experienced gay male, anal vibrators and vibrating butt plugs provide variable speed manipulation for the anal passageway. Anal plugs with ridges either part of or all the way along the length of the shaft also provide supplementary anal stimulation. Vibrating cock rings facilitate a similar reaction but for the penis. A pleasure wand is a double ended device that massages the scrotum and balls with one end whilst the other end sends stimulating vibrations to the anus/prostate. Male g-spot stimulators pivot to massage the g-spot deep inside the anus generating an incredibly intense orgasm.
Male Masturbators are another popular male sex toy for all male sexual orientations although male masturbators do not just come in the form of false vaginas and masturbation sleeves. In today’s marketplace several male masturbators cater specifically for gay men. They include vibrating anuses and tubes that have openings in them in the form of an anus. The most popular of the gay male masturbators available are the range of Fleshjacks. A member of the Fleshlight family (a new kind of masturbation tube), Fleshjacks not only feature the characteristic real-skin feeling within the tubes but the openings come in the form of butts and anuses while some of their inner sleeves replicate the insides of an anal passageway making it the most realistic penetrative feeling from a male masturbator.
The most important thing to consider whether new or experienced in the use of gay male sex toys is that the anus does not produce any natural lubrication so it is imperative that an anal lubricant is used to make penetration a much more pleasant and easier experience.
Amy Shepherd works in marketing for Venus Sales Ltd, a UK based online retailer operating a number of retail sites including Sinful Sensations.
A long time ago, Sex Toys where considered something to be ashamed of, you would never tell your friend or even your partner but slowly over time they have been accepted into society and are becoming more and more popular. With the Wide variety of adult toys and the fast pace world of technology changing every day, there seems to be always a new toy on the horizon.
Of course it can be quite difficult when you are with a partner and looking to bring sex toys into the relationship, some people can be quite touchy about the subject, some men consider it an insult like they are no longer needed. The truth is that sex toys bring couples closer together and help relationships last longer, some are designed so both people are involved in the action and not just one person is receiving all the fun.
But it can be quite daunting on the huge range available and what is suitable for you and your partner can take longer to figure out then you think! but buying toys that will be used with you and your partner is something that requires research and experimenting, you may find many products that don’t suit you but this is normal as everyone is different. It is well documented that most vibrating adult toys tend to work well together, things like rabbit vibrators, vibrating bullets and a new product that has just been released is the we-vibe which is designed to work with both people during sex. More and more couples toys are being created everyday because there is such a demand for toys.
More money is being spent on adult sex toys every day then most other industries and yet it is still considered a problem to talk about, it is still not socially acceptable in conversation in broad general environments such as at the dinner table or out while having drinks with friends, but you will find even your closest friends have adult toys that have never told you about, you could say keeping it quiet about your toys makes the experience better but if everyone where to talk openly about the subject there would be little trial and error and only the best toys would be available making it easier to understand “whats hot and whats not”
Originally sex toys where developed for a single user and where never thought of that they where to be used together, the dildo was one of the first adult toys to be created then from that it slowly became an all women’s industry making all different kinds of toys for women and hardly anything for men then toys like the fleshlight was created which is a fake mouth/vagina/anus designed for sex for men, it has become a revolution with hundreds of thousands being sold all over the world. Although there may be many different toys available some are not designed just for pleasure, the cock ring is made so the male can last longer in order to please the female, so there are other reasons to purchase an adult toy.
If you are in a relationship or single it is OK to own a sex toy, it is something that will help with self esteem and relaxation thus helping with every day life. If you haven’t got your toy yet, grab one now!
The majority of adult toy enthusiasts are familiar with having adult toys that are specifically targeted at the requirements of males such as enlargement pumps, or those for females that include butterfly stims, but there are also a large number of adult sex toys in the marketplace that are intended to be used by partners. Below are a number of the most popular adult toys for couples available.
Cock Rings with Vibration
Established for a long time as a sex aid for men, cock rings (also called penis rings) are not solely a benefit for males but can also aid with the titillation of the female. This is especially the case with vibrating cock rings that are worn round the base of the male genitalia and assist the man to keep a longer-lasting, thicker and firmer hard on. Nevertheless, unlike ordinary penis rings (which do benefit the female partner by helping to prolong sex), vibrating cock rings either have a built in motor or come with a bullet vibrator that is designed to fix to the penis ring. This excites the clitoris bringing a more enjoyable experience for the woman. A number of vibrating penis rings also have stimulating pleasure nubs on the outer surface for further stimulation.
Alongside small vibrators, fingertip massagers are the perfect items to use in foreplay. Finger massagers are available as supple sleeves that fit onto the finger and come with a raised textured surface, and ones that have a vibrating bullet included. Use fingertip massagers to gently touch the surface of your partner’s skin to get them prepared for lovemaking. Also available are finger stimulators with tapered ends for use in anal play.
Penis sleeves can also benefit both the male and the female partner. They come as either single ended or open ended sleeves. The single ended versions usually have an extension at the tip of the sleeve which enables the man to add supplementary inches to the penis which permits the receiving partner to enjoy a deeper level of penetration if wished for. A number of examples also have pleasure nodules on the surface. The open-ended penis sleeves are available either as in a pack or as singles and have different stimulating surfaces on the outside which invigorate the female. Penis sleeves are stretchy so that they fit all penis sizes.
Remote Control Adult Toys
Remote control sex toys are one of the most popular types of adult toys lately. These sex toys are usually wireless with some of them having a range of up to 10 metres. Simply pass on the controller to your other half and let the fun commerce! Usually coming with multispeed functions available by touching a button, remote control sex toys can be used any place as long as they’re within the controller’s range. When the female is wearing a bullet vibrator or an egg and their partner has the controls, she can have any amount of sensations whilst not being in control.
Sex Toys for the Shower
To help you enjoy better shower sex there are a variety of items available in addition to vibrators such as an attachment that transforms your shower into a unit with 2 heads in order that both parts of the couple can remain warm and wet at the same time, suction handles that fix to the tiles which allows you to have fun with different shower sex positions without sliding and even shower suction cuffs so that you can enjoy soft bondage while you’re under the running water.
Adult toys that are traditionally associated with solo use can also be used as sex toys for couples. A rabbit sex toy, can for instance, be used by the man to satisfy the woman instead of the female using it on her own. Similarly, a woman can use a male masturbator on her fella instead of him using it as a solo toy. Use your imagination and enjoy adult toys together.
Amy Shepherd works in marketing for Venus Sales Ltd, a UK based online retailer operating a number of retail sites including Sinful Sensations who stock sex toys for couples.
Adult sex toys is a topic that is being discussed more and more these days. Thanks to the book Fifty Shades of Grey, more people are buying toys and admitting to using them. Did you know that about 45% of women ages 18-60 use vibrators? Did you also know that about 78% of those women use a vibrator with a partner?
Although the numbers don’t like, are you still one of those people who don’t understand why people use them? Do you feel that if you have an excellent sex life, why would your relationship need sex toys?
Nothing is perfect and your sex life can always improve and be even better. Adult toys help you spice up your relationship and have a more fun and interesting sex life. They also are the key to helping you and your partner express yourselves sexually.
Everyone could use more sex and more enjoyable sex, right? We already know that sex helps you live longer, makes your heart and immune system healthier, reduces pain and stress, and improves sleep. Adult toys help couples have more sex in more adventurous and fun ways. If your sexual attitude is more playful, then your sexual relationship is more satisfying. Does that make sense?
About 75% of women can not orgasm through penetrative sex versus 90% of men who do. Using a toy during sex, such as a couples vibrator/couples sex toy or a vibrating penis ring, is one way to help the situation.
If you ask men how many women they have been with you have faked an orgasm, most men will say none. This truth is that about 50% of women have faked an orgasm at least once.
If you incorporate sex toys into your sexual relationship, your chances of reaching an orgasm increase dramatically.
Let’s consider time. We are all very busy and not many of us can have marathon sex sessions every time we have sex. If she is lucky enough to orgasm through penetration, it could take up to 20 minutes. If she were to use a luxury vibrator, it could take a few minutes.
Many men experience premature ejaculation. The Mayo Clinic suggests that one in three men or about 30% of men experience PE. A helpful way to fight premature ejaculation is with sex toys for men and sex accessories. For example, penis rings help restrict the blood flow from leaving the penis. Male desensitizers are designed to have him feel less sensation and delay ejaculation to prolong sex.
Unfortunately, many men forget about their partner’s needs. The key to the best sex is that is should include an orgasm for each partner. This should be the goal every time you have sex. Sex toys can help you reach your goal and cross the finish line… together.
It’s OK to use sex toys with a partner and using toys should not hurt your partner’s feelings. Sex toys are objects and not a real substitute for a real person.
Make sure to communicate with your partner how important each person’s orgasm is. The “hows” should not matter as much as they “whys.”
She Hates Her Body
Many women are embarrassed about their body, which can sometimes lead to intimacy issues. Using sex toys during mutual masturbation can reduce the anxiety of nakedness and help create more intimacy.
If you are ready to begin using sex toys, please make sure to read my other article: How to Introduce Sex Toys in the bedroom.
Have fun and remember that experimentation never hurt anyone!
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